fix SetHostSocket when add stream failed

[lo-tk]

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: introduced by PR #2938 .

Problem Summary:

Stream::SetHostSocket performs host-socket binding inside std::call_once, which makes the first execution result effectively global for all later callers. If AddStream(id()) fails during that first attempt, the lambda returns without setting _host_socket, but the once_flag is still consumed. After that, subsequent callers cannot retry the binding logic and may only observe the post-state through the function return value. This creates a broken state where the stream is not actually attached to any host socket, while later code paths still assume the binding has succeeded, eventually triggering _host_socket == NULL checks or null-dereference style crashes.

Changed:

return _host_socket != NULL ? 0 : -1;

Side effects:

• Performance effects:

• Breaking backward compatibility:

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