[AMORO-4280] Add support for Lance format on REST metastore

[zhangwl9]

Why are the changes needed?

Close #4280 .

Brief change log

• Register LANCE as a supported table format for REST metastore
• Enforce one-protocol-per-uri: reject combining LANCE with other
  formats（iceberg、mixed_iceberg）on REST metastore
• Add LanceRestCatalog backed by lance REST namespace API
• Extract shared logic into AbstractLanceCatalog; slim down
  LanceDirectoryV1Catalog
• Frontend: opt-in LANCE checkbox, default Iceberg family, hide
  storage/auth config when REST + LANCE is selected

How was this patch tested?

• Add some test cases that check the changes thoroughly including negative and positive cases if possible
  test by gravitino-lance rest service

• Add screenshots for manual tests if appropriate

• Run test locally before making a pull request

Documentation

• Does this pull request introduce a new feature? (yes / no)
• If yes, how is the feature documented? (not applicable / docs / JavaDocs / not documented)